Here’s your end-of-year reflection ✍🏽

This is the set of questions I answer at the end of every year 💞

I cry every year doing this – without fail 🥲

At the end of every December, I always take a couple days to do a lil’ reflection – intentional time + space for me to reflect on how I moved through the world in the last 365 days.

I’ve done this three years in a row – and answering the same questions every year has given me such a clear way to visually see + internalise my growth.

See: an answer for 2024 vs. 2025 👇🏽

I’m sharing my full reflection exercise below (heavily inspired by Ev’Yan Whitney’s in 2021) – perhaps this will be useful to you! It encompasses everything from your relationship to yourself, as well as your creativity and eroticism 💞

👉🏽 HERE IS THE FREE ANNUAL EOY REFLECTION TEMPLATE – just print it off or make a copy to your personal Drive.

Consider taking some time to create an intentional container for your reflection. I like to light a candle, brew some tea, and cosy up somewhere comfortable ☕️

My favourite part about doing this reflection is that I always walk away with a deep sense of appreciation for the wonderful people who touched my life in the last year.

Even as I was making my way through the exercise, I texted a couple folks to thank them for their impact on my life this year – and received so many affirming, encouraging, and kind words back 💗

Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t. Be honest with yourself, let the words flow, and have some compassion as these emotions + reflections surface. I promise you that clarity and gratitude await you on the other side 🙏🏽

PS. I’ve made the template free to make this exercise accessible to all, but feel free to tip me for my work 🖤 Good luck and see you in 2026, babe!

Thanks for reading,